Whether specifically designed to help cheaters get away with their, ahem, extra-curricular activities or not, there's an unsettling array of apps out there being used by people wanting to fool their partners Back in the day, you might have been able to catch a cheating partner by snooping through their emails, texts or internet history.But today’s adulterers are far too tech-savvy to leave such obvious tracks.” These are a few of the questions I’m asking myself as I speed through a rare Southern California monsoon toward Palm Springs on the eve of New Year’s Eve.My masturbation coach will be expecting answers to these questions. I’d heard about the female equivalent on years ago and thought of it again recently, after which I Googled “male masturbation coach in California” to see if such a thing existed.For example, there’s a video called the ‘nine golden keys of mindful masturbation’ that my young friend Blue Tyger produced.He’s a film student, so it’s really well done.” Across the pond, Elias leads an online Tantric Masturbation Course For Men.
“There’s no real certification for masturbation coaches,” Grether tells me, but there are “plenty of people who do it informally.
Ed claims the key to lasting longer is learning how to better manipulate your erotic energy, which most men are ashamed of. “Sure, we’ll use sex and eroticism to sell things, and there’s porn, but that’s not an accurate reflection of sexuality.
Most people think men’s masturbation is really simple: Five minutes, your hand, some porn and you’re done.
If you walk in on your partner on their phone and see them immediately shake the device, watch out - they could be using Fox Private Message, which deletes all messages when the phone is shaken.
What’s more, the app shows up in disguise on your phone, and after you add a number as a private contact, any message from them goes straight into the app rather than your usual inbox.
Nor was I looking to fly to Spain (or even Texas) to improve my wank. After a brief phone call, I scheduled a 90-minute, in-person session at his “studio” — a generous term, since it turned out to be the master bedroom of his beige ranch house in North Palm Springs.